There are days where I ache for some social interaction with adults - any banter that doesn't involve a cryptic to understand some of the toddler babble.
There are days where I'm relieved I don't have to get all dressed up and rush off to a day filled with awkward/unwanted conversations and forced smiles to pass the day. I can "relax" [I use that term losely] and hang out with my mini me. I can throw dinner in the crockpot first thing in the morning, meanwhile clean the house, maybe read a few books [Pete the Cat is where it's at people!], clean up toys about 5x before noon, and run some errands before it's someone's nap time [okay, my nap time]. Honestly, there are some days I can't wait for that time of the day. For those of you who aren't familiar - yet, it's similar to when you're working out and you can't wait to finish your set. So you start breaking down your reps or time into smaller increments to make yourself feel [at least mentally] that you're almost done.
Regardless, I am so grateful that I'm lucky enough to stay home and raise/teach my Toddler. I wish I could have done the same with my Little Big Man.
However, I've gradually fell into line with all the other yoga pant loving, jogging stroller pushing Moms.
*On another note - the attire around here seems to be fitness clothing galore. I ventured out to San Diego one day and almost every chick I saw, young/old/skinny/thick/chunky/lumpy/pretty/ugly/#YouNameIt, was rocking some Lululemon leggings paired with a Nike pullover and Nike shoes. I sometimes feel like I'm overdressed in jeans and a sweatshirt. It's almost like someone up above is trying to drop me a big fat hint by rubbing fitness all up in my face.
If you didn't know - I'm currently enrolled in school :) - now you know. I'm taking online classes to graduate with a certificate in Business Administration. Might I add -- It sure is time consuming! Each lesson presentation and quiz/test that follows takes approximately 2 HOURS! [key word, approximately. You try tucking in a toddler SEVERAL times and try to do your school work... In a two story house] I also have to complete the reading assignments, respond to discussion questions, and complete an assignment to submit to my instructor at the end of every module I complete... Whew... I'm still working on finding my balance and managing my time a little better. -->Insert your helpful advice here<--
I'm still friendless [boo hoo meh]. My neighbors (to the right) seem really nice. We've only exchanged some friendly banter in passing and she brought over deviled eggs on Easter [ERMAHGURD I love deviled eggs!] So in return I baked some cookie brownies and brought some over as a thank you. Other than that I'm usually cooped up inside binge watching Netflix, cleaning, cooking, or entertaining my very active toddler {formally known as my Newbie}. I'm open to meeting new people and I know I have quite some time to do so. I just miss being able to have lunch or grab some coffee with my Dad/Sis or my girl friends.
I'm not sure if I ever shared this, but when we were still in NC we made dinner time an "electronics-free" time - no phones or anything else at the table. I value family time a lot and can't stand when everyone [including myself] has their face buried in their phone. So for the past two months or so we've made Fridays our "Family Movie Night" with the same rules applied. We watch a kid friendly movie and leave the electronics in the other room. I'm actually surprised that my Little Big Man really enjoys it since it's ALWAYS a kid movie he's "already seen" and I can't help but notice my husband gets a little excited when we finally make it to Friday [other than the fact the work week is over].
I had some different, hopeful expectations about this place, but I'm adapting like I always do. My goal is to make the best out of this duty station.
Until next time --
xo,
sss
If you didn't know - I'm currently enrolled in school :) - now you know. I'm taking online classes to graduate with a certificate in Business Administration. Might I add -- It sure is time consuming! Each lesson presentation and quiz/test that follows takes approximately 2 HOURS! [key word, approximately. You try tucking in a toddler SEVERAL times and try to do your school work... In a two story house] I also have to complete the reading assignments, respond to discussion questions, and complete an assignment to submit to my instructor at the end of every module I complete... Whew... I'm still working on finding my balance and managing my time a little better. -->Insert your helpful advice here<--
I'm still friendless [boo hoo meh]. My neighbors (to the right) seem really nice. We've only exchanged some friendly banter in passing and she brought over deviled eggs on Easter [ERMAHGURD I love deviled eggs!] So in return I baked some cookie brownies and brought some over as a thank you. Other than that I'm usually cooped up inside binge watching Netflix, cleaning, cooking, or entertaining my very active toddler {formally known as my Newbie}. I'm open to meeting new people and I know I have quite some time to do so. I just miss being able to have lunch or grab some coffee with my Dad/Sis or my girl friends.
I'm not sure if I ever shared this, but when we were still in NC we made dinner time an "electronics-free" time - no phones or anything else at the table. I value family time a lot and can't stand when everyone [including myself] has their face buried in their phone. So for the past two months or so we've made Fridays our "Family Movie Night" with the same rules applied. We watch a kid friendly movie and leave the electronics in the other room. I'm actually surprised that my Little Big Man really enjoys it since it's ALWAYS a kid movie he's "already seen" and I can't help but notice my husband gets a little excited when we finally make it to Friday [other than the fact the work week is over].
I had some different, hopeful expectations about this place, but I'm adapting like I always do. My goal is to make the best out of this duty station.
Until next time --
xo,
sss
Sounds like you're getting yourself and the family into some form of routine. That's not a bad thing. The school work sounds like a struggle, but school work isn't?! You'll appreciate it even more when you get it done. We miss you guys and being able to hang out anytime we wanted, but there's nothing we can do about it. Juju brings up Jayden & Vinny every time I talk to him. I knew he would take the move the hardest. Maybe you guys will make it back to the East Coast again some day. Love you! Keep up the great work!
ReplyDeleteSounds like you're getting yourself and the family into some form of routine. That's not a bad thing. The school work sounds like a struggle, but school work isn't?! You'll appreciate it even more when you get it done. We miss you guys and being able to hang out anytime we wanted, but there's nothing we can do about it. Juju brings up Jayden & Vinny every time I talk to him. I knew he would take the move the hardest. Maybe you guys will make it back to the East Coast again some day. Love you! Keep up the great work!
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